In Chiang Mai, Thailand, there are tourist attractions for the would-be chef, masseuse, and now, monk. The recently started ‘Monk for a Month’ program is a new example of the mixing of religion and commerce. The program provides the opportunity to ordain, live in a Thai temple, and receive basic Buddhist teachings and meditation instruction. However, all of this is offered for a price depending on length of stay and intended ordination status.
The program takes place in Wat Sri Boen Ruang in Fang, Chiang Mai. When I went for a visit, a few novice monks greeted me in English, asking where I came from. Obviously the interaction with foreigners through this program has given these novices confidence with their English-speaking abilities. Wat Sri Boen Ruang has about 50 novices in residence and about 100 novices that attend the school on the monastery grounds, but only a handful of fully ordained monks. Thus the main interaction of the foreign participants is with novices—they go on their alms round together and can often be seen sitting and chatting in English.
Despite the Monk for a Month hype on the internet (see, for instance, the Thai Visa Forum discussion) and the popular Facebook fan page, there is nothing to indicate this temple hosts the program. There are no signs, and not many foreigners can be seen. There are usually between 1-4 participants in the program with only a few rooms available for the guests.
This program began about a year and a half ago, with the permission of the abbot of Wat Sri Boen Ruang. The abbot, Phra Aphisit Pingchaiyawat, aged 37 with a Ph.D. from India, has a vision to build a large international meditation center. Monk for a Month is a stepping stone toward this larger goal. Ben Bowler, founder of the program, has been living in Fang for three years. He was volunteering in the Shan State in Burma for a year and decided to stay in northern Thailand. Bowler and his wife were already running English language lessons here so the Monk for a Month program grew out of this organically. Bowler and Phra Aphisit have aligned objectives and this program would not have been possible under different circumstances.
During my visits to this site, I noticed that the interactions between the staff, novices, and participants has the feeling of a close-knit community. The participants ask the staff any casual questions they have, eat lunch together, and chat about upcoming activities and other Buddhist meditation opportunities in the area.
Perhaps because of this atmosphere none of the participants so far has complained about having to pay to participate in the program. Bowler decided to make this a commercial enterprise because he had upfront costs like staff wages and advertising, mostly facebook ads that helped to promote their fan page. The fixed price helps Bowler have some security. He would consider moving to a donation-based system but this would be a leap of faith, as it would be hard to know if the participants would give enough to keep the program running. Some past participants have not been able to pay the full price and Bowler and staff have been able to work out something for them, and so far have not had to turn anyone away. Bowler uses the extra money from the program to support his real passion, the Blood Foundation, which helps to further his volunteer work in the Shan State.
From my conversations with Bowler, he indicated that there are various purposes to Monk for a Month, which he calls a cultural exchange program. Bowler hopes the program will help participants get a full picture of the Buddhist tradition, support and understand issues of social justice and pluralism, and take with them the experiences of ordination, meditation, and interactions with the novices.
Bowler knew that teaching about Buddhism had to be a part of this program as he intended it to be for spiritual seekers. Essentially, Bowler finds Monk for a Month couldn’t operate without a teacher. To this end, Bowler found Dhamma Instructor, Fred Blandford, a resident of Fang, by chance while eating lunch one day. Blandford’s qualifications are that he has been a Buddhist for over 30 years, has been to many retreats at Wat Rampoeng, Chiang Mai, and elsewhere, has read many books on Buddhism, and has learned from a number of Thai teachers. Participants receive seven days of two-hour sessions with Blandford beginning with basic teachings on Thai culture, basics of Buddhism, and how to behave in a temple. Over the next few days students learn about the Buddha’s life story, the basics of concentration and vipassana meditation, major Buddhist concepts, and points of Buddhist morality. The seven days of teaching are rounded out with a discussion of the four stages of Enlightenment and Buddhist cosmology. So participants get a full dose of the religion of Buddhism from Blandford. Bowler applauds this approach because he finds that in the West most people have an idealized view of Buddhism—only hearing about its rational and scientific nature, but nothing about cosmology or ritual. With Blandford’s teaching participants end up with a more rounded idea of the tradition.
Besides learning the basics of Buddhism from Blandford, Bowler also hopes that the participants come away with a sense of social justice and is thus very much in favor of the movement of socially engaged Buddhism. Although he feels these are important to each religious tradition, this aspect doesn’t contribute to social justice. The main message Bowler tries to convey through this program is that one cannot divorce one’s own spiritual development from service and social justice. The participants get a taste of this social engagement while practicing English with the novices at the temple and through trips to the Shan states that Bowler organizes for the participants.
Another objective of this program is to support and encourage the growing pluralism among the world’s religions. From Bowler’s point of view, the program is not about becoming a Buddhist but rather incorporating ideas from various traditions into one’s daily life. This is at the heart of the program because Bowler created this not for committed Buddhists but seekers with an interest in Buddhism.
The last main purpose of this cultural exchange program is to offer an authentic view of the monastic life. The program has hosted roughly 100 participants, 70 of them men. Of these 70, 30-40 have become novices who have taken the ordination seriously. The participants ordain in the same ceremony as the Thai novices, study the 10 precepts and make a showing of commitment by memorizing some of the Pali ordination chanting. But Bowler admits that the preparation is not extensive, as the program takes a ‘learn as you go’ approach. The foreign monastics perform the duties of a novice by participating in ceremonies, such as funeral and community events, and going for alms every morning, and the local community has received them well.
Thus the Monk for a Month program is another unique offering for tourists in the Chiang Mai region. Participants of this program are given the chance to ordain, learn about Buddhism, and contribute to Bowler’s vision of social justice and pluralism in the modern world. Some outsiders are critical of the program because of the issue of mixing religion and commerce, but Bowler finds that what is most interesting about the program is the cultural exchange aspect and the support of social engagement and inter-faith dialogue.
Brooke Schedneck is a Ph.D. candidate at Arizona State University. She owns the Wandering Dhamma blog.




I looked at the website http://www.monkforamonth.com/ and found some more information. It is good to see that women are welcomed even though they cannot ordain. This is still fairly progressive by Thai standards. I am curious to know more about how the program deals with gender issues and the experiences of women who have participated in the program.
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Thanks for the excellent article, Brooke. It’s funny, I keep seeing references to MFAM mixing commerce and Buddhism but I have to say the commerce part is so low key that it was never an issue. The ‘fee’ for a month’s stay at Wat Sri Boen Ruang is so minimal, at least by Western standards, that it isn’t even a consideration when balanced against the opportunity it affords.
I was only there for one week but what I gained in that time will stay with me forever and I look forward to returning for a full month or more. I cheerfully gave more than was asked of me as I believe that this program and others supported by Blood Foundation are of great importance. A visit to the Daylight School alone shows how much impact a relatively small donation can have on people’s lives and makes giving very personal.
Thanks again for the balanced and thoughtful article,
Pat Drnec (the guy on the left)
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Thank you so much for your article which I found interesting and gave insight into the programme I intend participating in at the end of this year. I will let you know how it goes. Wishing you happiness
Aren
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I feel it’s very important to understand that what Dr. Aphisit and Ben Bowler are doing with MFAM has far less to do with “commerce,” and far more to do with Buddhist principles of compassion and lovingkindness. Every day, Ben and his friends at the Sangha in Fang are building a school for orphaned and displaced children, and contributing to the well being of families displaced by the strife in Burma.
MFAM is a compassionate vehicle that helps fund these important charitable goals. MFAM also allows individuals to experience in a very authentic sense the Thai tradition of temporary ordination.
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The monk for a month program.
It is only when we walk in the footsteps of others that we are truly walking, for only then can we see the true path before us and not just the narrow view we walk in our day-to-day lives.
Dr. Apisit, Abbott of Wat Sri Boen Ruang, embraced this philosophy in endorsing the monk for a month program.
Young novices and participants alike gain new perspectives on culture, spirituality, harmony and respect. And the monastery gains much-needed support for its school
and other programs.
A win-win situation made possible by the monk for a month program.
Some have questioned the charges for the program as Buddhist teachings are supposed to be free While this may be true, the cost of providing meals learning materials and accommodation Is more than the monastery can afford.
All I can do is relate my personal experience, and explain why I see the monk for a month program as valuable in a troubled world.
One of the greatest threats to humanity is many people’s belief in their own righteousness.
They believe that their tradition is the ultimate truth, therefore dismissing other points of view, blindly trusting in their way of life and religious outlook, often unwilling or unable to consider change, or entertain the possibility that they may not have all the answers.
And as they think they have the ultimate truth, anything others may have to offer would lead to damnation.
I on the other hand dare to walk in the footsteps of others, I dare to question the self, and in so doing I’ve gained a deeper awareness and understanding of my own knowing.
This allows me to embrace the reality of other paths while remaining true to the self.
The monk for a month program does not seek to convert, proselytise or enlighten; it seeks to broaden your horizons, show the possibilities and help you on your spiritual journey.
And from my perspective it does this extremely well.
You will only get out of the program what you are willing to put in, if you embrace the possibilities,
I am sure you will come away with a deeper perspective and understanding
of the Thai Sangha and their unique way of life.
Peter Forell the 14th of the sixth 2009 ©
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I have perused the above comments and I have to say that as a woman I felt treated very fairly during my stay at the temple.
My stay at the temple was for three weeks and I took 8 precepts during that time.
I have to agree that you get out of it what you put in. It is also important that you take with you an open mind and leave all expectations behind. I took to the temple an open mind and an open heart and I came away from the experience with a totally new perspective of life. This is something that cannot be gained from reading as reading leaves room for interpretation. Experience is learning and I am so grateful that I have been given this opportunity as I have become enriched in many ways.
My experiences at the temple have shown me that what you get out of the stay at the temple is not gender based but very personal.
Many thanks once again to everyone at the temple!!
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Schedneck, you understand them because you put yourself into their shoes, not like others with limited worldviews seen in this website.
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I am a monk at Wat Sri Boen Ruang and the meditation teacher for foreigners who come to stay here.
I am pleased to say that the stay at the temple is now by donation only.
Unfortunately if anyone follows links from monk for a month it takes them to another site where it may not appear clearly that they may come directly to the temple.
I am trying to rectify this problem with the sites owner but in the mean time am just trying to get the message out there.
If anybody wishes to come to the temple they can contact us via the blog page.
http://www.watsriboenruang.wordpress.com
With metta,Phra Greg
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Great to hear it Greg. It should have been donation from the start instead of this ridiculous $800 or so for a month which was plain hucksterism. Reminds me of the indulgences of the Dark Ages the Catholic Church sold for access to God. So many people are on the take in Thailand abusing religion and “service” for personal profit, manipulating foreigners. These are glorified tourist trap operations.
And what of this “paying to volunteer teach” crap that I’ve seen in my travels? I’ve worked with volunteers before and that’s what they are: volunteers—not paid, labor freely given. Pay to teach? You’ve got to be kidding me. And all of these foreigners getting taken advantage of makes me sick. You want to teach a monk? Go teach one! It ain’t difficult! Just walk up to one and offer your service.
And Greg, I didn’t see your credentials either, nor this other farang monk who teaches there. You need to show who you are on the website. Where did you learn? From whom? What is your education and background?
And please, all of you who plan on coming to Thailand, please spread the word not to give a dime to these Disney tours of the Orient.
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Hi Thank you for your feed back. I am not such a blog savvy type person but will certainly add a few more details to the site.
I actually studied Vipassana meditation and undertook a teaching course at Wat Phra That Doi Suthep in Chiang Mai Thailand and also studied under Ajaan Tong. I originally ordained in a Burmese temple in malaysia and my teachers there trace their teachers back to Ven Mahasi Sayadaw. I agree that the paying for learning the Dhamma should not happen and can say that I was not here when it did.
The origins of this are complicated to say the least.
Since the temple stay was made donation based the monk for a month website has removed the links to us and it is now routed via another site which is selling tours and they don’t show any direct links to our temple. I have spoken to the owners of this site, but no success in getting things changed at the moment.
It is my hope that people will become aware of the opportunity to stay in a temple such as ours, which is not a full on retreat and not be conned into paying for it. The guy who originally started the m4am site says he is offering people ” Praycations”
Again thank you for your positive feed back. I really do appreciate it.
With metta, Phra Greg
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“Monk for a Month” sounds funny, but there are those of us who want to travel alone to Thailand to experience wat life and Thai culture while studying the Dhamma. And, this seems to be an excellent opportunity before leaping – face first – into a forest or urban monastery environment. I’m not one to get off the plane and show up at a monastery, anyway.
Personally, $800 for a person to stay a month, or even a couple of weeks, sounds far more than generous by western standards. I get that for more serious or dedicated practitioners the donation thing is essential, but I can also imagine the backpacking loons that would be delighted to stick around a temple and eat the food for nothing. It happens, and that can seriously disrupt any placid environment.
The very positive testimonials for Fang Valley’s retreats seem to speak for themselves.
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@ Frank.
Hi Frank, your point about some people wishing to have help with their travel plans is a valid point.
The problem is the charging for the Dhamma.
In Thailand(I cannot speak for other countries) it is accepted that people who stay in temples to practice meditation and/or study the Dhamma do so on a donation only basis.
As one of the monks at the temple in question, I am pleased that the charging for this scheme was stopped. ( I was not at this temple when the charge was in place, and therefore did not benefit in any way from it).
Although the monk for a month name still exists, it is actually now a tour of the region, with home stays etc, and if people wish to come to the temple for a brief period of time they may do so. However we have made it clear that no charge should be made for those who wish to stay here.
People can also come for the temple stay only, in which case all they need to do is contact us and we will then answer any questions they may have on how to get here, etc.
With Metta, Phra Greg Chuntawongso.
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Just a note to say that we have now severed all ties with the M4AM program and had all references to the temple here at Wat Sri Boen Ruang removed from their site.
They are now concentrating on other programs and we have placed a note on our FAQ page of our own blog advising people that we have no affiliation with 3rd party operators.
From here on all inquiries will come through either our own blog or through other sites that have been set up by past guests that are designed to let people see what we offer here.
The program is basically the same, however there is not so much emphasis on the temporary novice ordination, though it is still available for those who have a genuine interest in seeing what it is like to live in robes(i.e. those who may be considering ordaining).
With metta,
Phra Greg Chuntawongso
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hi… I will be visiting my son in siem reap , cambodia in april ’12, then i’d like to come stay with you all for awhile to meditate, in june. what can i bring for you all? …………. matt
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@Matthew Bard.
Hi Matt, if you would like to email me at phrachuntawongso at gmail.com , I will get back to you ASAP.
I am currently teaching a 10 day vipassana retreat and so spending little time on the internet,
Write to me at the above email and I will write when I have a moment.
With metta,
Phra Greg
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